Comments on: Match Winks: an Overview http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/match-winks/ Online Dating Advice Tue, 20 Jul 2010 20:28:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: russruggles http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/match-winks/comment-page-1/#comment-4805 russruggles Thu, 25 Feb 2010 23:56:12 +0000 http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=110#comment-4805 It sounds like it worked for you - I'm glad to hear it! Thanks for sharing. It sounds like it worked for you – I’m glad to hear it! Thanks for sharing.

]]> By: Brian B http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/match-winks/comment-page-1/#comment-4804 Brian B Thu, 25 Feb 2010 20:50:33 +0000 http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=110#comment-4804 I did teh Shuffle and got two winks the next day. Very cool tip! I did teh Shuffle and got two winks the next day. Very cool tip!

]]> By: Brian B http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/match-winks/comment-page-1/#comment-4799 Brian B Wed, 24 Feb 2010 06:03:22 +0000 http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=110#comment-4799 I agree that winking is lame. Get some balls. But wasting time on long emails doesn't work either. I like your idea of a hook. One sentence to get some interest. Quick, but effective to find out if she wants to talk. I agree that winking is lame. Get some balls. But wasting time on long emails doesn’t work either. I like your idea of a hook. One sentence to get some interest. Quick, but effective to find out if she wants to talk.

]]> By: russruggles http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/match-winks/comment-page-1/#comment-3115 russruggles Mon, 05 Oct 2009 17:56:07 +0000 http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=110#comment-3115 Tony, it's pretty widely accepted that women prefer messages. So much so that Match.com says right in their emails "women prefer messages." I'm not big on sending messages to women who have shown no interest either. That's why I recommend the "Who's Viewed Me Shuffle." If a woman has looked at your profile, that is a small expression of interest. It's my stance that *winking* is pathetically unagressive; and *strategic* first contact through messages is the way to go. Have you had success otherwise? Please share. Tony, it’s pretty widely accepted that women prefer messages. So much so that Match.com says right in their emails “women prefer messages.”

I’m not big on sending messages to women who have shown no interest either. That’s why I recommend the “Who’s Viewed Me Shuffle.” If a woman has looked at your profile, that is a small expression of interest.

It’s my stance that *winking* is pathetically unagressive; and *strategic* first contact through messages is the way to go. Have you had success otherwise? Please share.

]]> By: Tony http://www.onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/match-winks/comment-page-1/#comment-3114 Tony Mon, 05 Oct 2009 17:25:13 +0000 http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/?p=110#comment-3114 Ugh, there is more then one way to do things. If you ask me, I'd say that waiting for women to wink at you is pathetically un aggressive. I'd also say that investing more then 10 minutes a day in composing messages to women whom have shown you no interest is a foolhardy endeavor, thus the wink. It allows to gauge if there is any possibility that she might be interested so you don't waste your time composing a well thought out message that will just be deleted. Ugh, there is more then one way to do things. If you ask me, I’d say that waiting for women to wink at you is pathetically un aggressive.

I’d also say that investing more then 10 minutes a day in composing messages to women whom have shown you no interest is a foolhardy endeavor, thus the wink.

It allows to gauge if there is any possibility that she might be interested so you don’t waste your time composing a well thought out message that will just be deleted.

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