Ask Russ: Someone Winked at Me - Are They a Match Member?
I got a good question via e-mail today: I was reading your blog post about eliciting winks from gals on match.com, and also the post pointing out that the majority of people with profiles aren't actually members.  So my question is, when you receive a wink 1) how ca
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Don't Talk About Yourself
One of the most common complaints I hear from women about guys they date is that they talk about themselves too much. To see this phenomenon in action, watch any episode of Millionaire Matchmaker. It's natural to want to talk about yourself. After all, what in this worl
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Why You Should Log into Match Every Day
Because smart folks know that you have a better chance of getting a response if you message members who are active in the past 24 hours. So, they sort by "Activity Date" (just like you hopefully do when you do the who's viewed me shuffle). So, if you show up as "act
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